{"id":190727,"date":"2016-11-10T12:01:46","date_gmt":"2016-11-10T09:01:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/robin.jobs\/qbis-2\/?p=190727"},"modified":"2024-12-05T15:00:23","modified_gmt":"2024-12-05T12:00:23","slug":"kapec-doties-stradat-uz-arzemem-kopa-ar-otru-pusiti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/robin.jobs\/lv_ru\/darbs-arzemes\/kapec-doties-stradat-uz-arzemem-kopa-ar-otru-pusiti","title":{"rendered":"K\u0101p\u0113c doties str\u0101d\u0101t uz \u0101rzem\u0113m kop\u0101 ar otru pus\u012bti?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tre\u0161da\u013ca no cilv\u0113kiem, kas dodas str\u0101d\u0101t N\u012bderland\u0113, ierodas k\u0101 p\u0101ris. \u201eM\u0113s esam nov\u0113roju\u0161i trendu, ka arvien vair\u0101k cilv\u0113ku mekl\u0113 darbu kop\u0101 ar savu otro pus\u012bti\u201c \u2013 st\u0101sta person\u0101la a\u0123ent\u016bras N\u012bderland\u0113 vad\u012bt\u0101ja Linda ten Teulinga. Saska\u0146\u0101 ar psihoterapiju, \u0161\u0101da tendence past\u0101v, jo tas pal\u012bdz p\u0101riem viegl\u0101k p\u0101rvar\u0113t psiholo\u0123iskus p\u0101rdz\u012bvojumus.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cit\u0101d\u0101ka attieksme no darba dev\u0113jiem<\/h2>\n

24 gad\u012bgais \u017digimantas Zdavani\u010dius, kas jau otro gadu str\u0101d\u0101 N\u012bderland\u0113, atz\u012bst, ka otraj\u0101 reiz\u0113 ierodoties ar meiteni N\u012bderland\u0113, k\u013cuva viegl\u0101k p\u0101rvar\u0113t visus \u0161\u0137\u0113r\u0161\u013cus. P\u0113c vi\u0146a teikt\u0101, darba dev\u0113ji dod priek\u0161roku p\u0101riem, jo divi darbinieki ir stabil\u0101ki, ret\u0101k maina darba vietas, ilg\u0101k uzturas valst\u012b, viegl\u0101k piel\u0101gojas jauniem dz\u012bves apst\u0101k\u013ciem un ir vair\u0101k motiv\u0113ti nopeln\u012bt.<\/p>\n

Viens no nodarbin\u0101t\u012bbas a\u0123ent\u016bras \u201eRobin\u201c vad\u012bt\u0101jiem Sergejs Naum\u010diks uzsver, ka cilv\u0113kiem no Latvijas, Lietuvas, Polijas, Rum\u0101nijas un Portug\u0101les pieeja pagaidu nodarbin\u0101t\u012bbai at\u0161\u0137iras. \u201cM\u016bsu asto\u0146u darb\u012bbas gadu gait\u0101, main\u012bjusies darba mekl\u0113t\u0101ja b\u016bt\u012bba \u2013 no bail\u012bga cilv\u0113ka, kas neuzticas ne sev, ne apk\u0101rt\u0113jiem, l\u012bdz mier\u012bgam, motiv\u0113tam cilv\u0113kam, kas zina, ka sa\u0146ems god\u012bgu atalgojumu un labus dz\u012bvo\u0161anas apst\u0101k\u013cus, ka par vi\u0146u par\u016bp\u0113sies,\u201d \u2013 saka S. Naum\u010diks, \u201cm\u0113s esam saj\u016bsm\u0101 par augo\u0161o trendu, ka arvien vair\u0101k darbu mekl\u0113 p\u0101ri. M\u0113s to redzam k\u0101 atzin\u012bbu m\u016bsu darb\u012bbai \u2013 galu gal\u0101, t\u0101d\u0113j\u0101di m\u016bsu darbinieki uz mums pa\u013caujas ne tikai ar savu, bet ar\u012b savu visd\u0101rg\u0101ko cilv\u0113ku n\u0101kotni. \u201d<\/p>\n

Pa\u0161laik atrast darbu p\u0101riem, kas prot ang\u013cu valodu, ir sal\u012bdzino\u0161i vienk\u0101r\u0161i. Bez valodu zin\u0101\u0161an\u0101m atrast darbu b\u016bs sare\u017e\u0123\u012bt\u0101k un ilg\u0101k. \u201cM\u0113s atzin\u012bgi v\u0113rt\u0113jam un labpr\u0101t uz\u0146emam p\u0101rus,\u201d atkl\u0101ti saka person\u0101la a\u0123ent\u016bras mened\u017eere Teulinga, \u201cbet m\u0113s nevaram partneriem garant\u0113t darbu vien\u0101 uz\u0146\u0113mum\u0101 vai vien\u0101 mai\u0146\u0101\u201d.<\/p>\n

Priek\u0161roc\u012bba \u2013 paz\u012bstams kaimi\u0146\u0161<\/h2>\n

Turpret\u012b, viena liela priek\u0161roc\u012bba p\u0101riem, kas ierodas str\u0101d\u0101t kop\u0101, ir \u2013 person\u0101la a\u0123ent\u016bras atbrauc\u0113jus izmitina kop\u0101 vien\u0101 istab\u0101. N\u012bderlandiete Linda joko: \u201cJ\u016bs vienm\u0113r zin\u0101siet, kas ir j\u016bsu istabas biedrs.\u201d
\n\u017digimanta l\u012bgava Lina Girskites saka, ka p\u0101riem vienm\u0113r ir lab\u0101ki dz\u012bvo\u0161anas apst\u0101k\u013ci str\u0101dnieku m\u0101j\u0101s. \u201cTagad dz\u012bvojam m\u0101j\u0101, kur\u0101 dz\u012bvo devi\u0146i cilv\u0113ki, tr\u012bs p\u0101ri dz\u012bvo katrs sav\u0101 istab\u0101, tr\u012bs sievietes \u2013 kop\u0101 vien\u0101 istab\u0101.\u201d
\nTom\u0113r, liel\u0101k\u0101 priek\u0161roc\u012bba dodoties str\u0101d\u0101t divat\u0101 \u2013 psiholo\u0123iskais atbalsts. \u201cDarbs nav viegls, da\u017ek\u0101rt viss var izdoties labi, citu dienu kaut kas nesan\u0101k un ir stress\u201d \u2013 atkl\u0101j \u017d. Zdanavi\u010dius \u2013 \u201cta\u010du m\u012b\u013cotais cilv\u0113ks, atn\u0101kot m\u0101j\u0101s, nomierina, atbalsta, motiv\u0113. Protams, draudz\u012bgs istabas biedrs ar\u012b var noder\u0113t, bet ne tik \u013coti.\u201d<\/p>\n

Vientu\u013co atbrauc\u0113ju risks<\/h2>\n

Ja otr\u0101 pus\u012bte palikusi m\u0101j\u0101s un j\u016bs viens otru nesatiekat, ir daudz gr\u016bt\u0101k tikt gal\u0101 ar psiholo\u0123iskajiem izaicin\u0101jumiem, ar ko n\u0101kas sastapties. \u201cMan bija pazi\u0146a, kur\u0161 bija sev izt\u0113lojies jauku n\u0101kotni m\u0101j\u0101s Lietuv\u0101. S\u0101kum\u0101 vi\u0146\u0161 c\u012bt\u012bgi virz\u012bj\u0101s uz savu m\u0113r\u0137i, bet ar laiku s\u0101ka sl\u012bd\u0113t lejup \u2013 neiztur\u0113ja vientul\u012bbu un s\u0101ka t\u0113r\u0113t visu naudu izklaid\u0113m. Lietuv\u0101 palikus\u012b draudzene neko nevar\u0113ja ietekm\u0113t,\u201d \u2013 r\u016bgt\u0101s atmi\u0146as st\u0101sta \u017digimantas.
\nK\u0101 paskaidro psihoterapeits Raimundo Aleknos, ikviens cilv\u0113ks, pametot ierasto vidi un tuvos cilv\u0113kus, piedz\u012bvo \u201cs\u0113ru procesu\u201d. T\u0101p\u0113c, ce\u013co\u0161anai un dz\u012bvei cit\u0101 valst\u012b ar otro pus\u012bti ir liela v\u0113rt\u012bba, jo, kaut gan j\u016bs esat sve\u0161\u0101 vid\u0113, j\u016bs esat kop\u0101 ar sev tuvu cilv\u0113ku.<\/p>\n

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Veiksm\u012bga iedz\u012bvo\u0161an\u0101s<\/h2>\n

Vadoties p\u0113c speci\u0101lista teikt\u0101, da\u017eiem \u0161is s\u0113ru process paiet \u0101tri, citiem tas ilgst ilg\u0101k. \u201cVissvar\u012bg\u0101kais, lai j\u016bs to pie\u0146emtu k\u0101 dabisku lietu un sp\u0113tu to p\u0101rdz\u012bvot,\u201d m\u0101ca R. Alkena. \u201cIesp\u0113jams, ka dodoties kop\u0101, piedz\u012bvosiet da\u017e\u0101dus posmus, t\u0101p\u0113c j\u016bs var\u0113siet viens otru atbalst\u012bt.\u201d<\/p>\n

Kad cilv\u0113ks netiek gal\u0101 ar iek\u0161\u0113jiem izaicin\u0101jumiem, zaud\u0113 interesi par vidi sev apk\u0101rt, sp\u0113ju iedzi\u013cin\u0101ties probl\u0113m\u0101s. Daudziem z\u016bd motiv\u0101cija str\u0101d\u0101t un tie s\u0101k apsv\u0113rt iesp\u0113ju doties prom. Cilv\u0113ki iegrimst sev\u012b, viegl\u0101kais ce\u013c\u0161 \u0161\u0137iet visu pamest un b\u0113gt no sevis. P\u0113c divu gadu dz\u012bves N\u012bderland\u0113, \u017digimantas saka, ka lab\u0101k doties str\u0101d\u0101t kop\u0101 ar savu m\u012b\u013coto: \u201cTad ir cilv\u0113ks, kas pa\u0146ems, sapurin\u0101s un p\u0101rjaut\u0101s \u2013 K\u0101p\u0113c m\u0113s te atbrauc\u0101m?! Lai peln\u012btu naudu. M\u0113r\u0137is nav peln\u012bt un t\u0113r\u0113ties. Tas \u0161eit ir iesp\u0113jams, tikai vajag gudri izmantot pied\u0101v\u0101t\u0101s iesp\u0113jas.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Tre\u0161da\u013ca no cilv\u0113kiem, kas dodas str\u0101d\u0101t N\u012bderland\u0113, ierodas k\u0101 p\u0101ris. \u201eM\u0113s esam nov\u0113roju\u0161i trendu, ka arvien vair\u0101k cilv\u0113ku mekl\u0113 darbu kop\u0101 ar savu otro pus\u012bti\u201c \u2013 st\u0101sta person\u0101la a\u0123ent\u016bras N\u012bderland\u0113 vad\u012bt\u0101ja Linda ten Teulinga. Saska\u0146\u0101 ar psihoterapiju, \u0161\u0101da tendence past\u0101v, jo tas pal\u012bdz p\u0101riem viegl\u0101k p\u0101rvar\u0113t psiholo\u0123iskus p\u0101rdz\u012bvojumus. Cit\u0101d\u0101ka attieksme no darba dev\u0113jiem 24 gad\u012bgais…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":34,"featured_media":190737,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1228,1229],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-190727","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-darbs","category-dzive","work-category-darbs-arzemes"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/robin.jobs\/lv_ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/190727","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/robin.jobs\/lv_ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/robin.jobs\/lv_ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/robin.jobs\/lv_ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/34"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/robin.jobs\/lv_ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=190727"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/robin.jobs\/lv_ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/190727\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1223810,"href":"https:\/\/robin.jobs\/lv_ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/190727\/revisions\/1223810"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/robin.jobs\/lv_ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/190737"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/robin.jobs\/lv_ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=190727"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/robin.jobs\/lv_ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=190727"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/robin.jobs\/lv_ru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=190727"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}